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I met a guy on the internet and I really liked him. Actually he told me he liked me first, he said he was falling head over heels and that he couldn’t believe it because we hadn’t met yet. Anyway I was hesitant to meet him, but he reassured me that he liked me and told me “you have to dance like no one is watching”. So I ended up meeting him and we got along great the same way it was when we talked on the internet. The first time we met up he kissed me, well actually we kissed for about an hour. The next day we saw each other again and we kissed for a long time also. Anyway he went camping and then disappeared. He didn’t talk to me anymore. I thought he died. I was really upset about this I would write him and he wouldn’t write back. The fact that he didn’t want to talk to me didn’t bother me, the fact that he couldn’t tell me bothered me. I don’t think its very considerate to just leave someone hanging. Well he wasn’t dead because 2 months later he talked to me again and said that he didn’t think we had anything in common and knew that I wanted more. I never said anything about wanting more I didn’t even want to meet him. I still really liked him and he said that he wanted to kiss me again and I told I would, which was probably stupid on my part but I liked him. We were going to meet up again, I was going to go to his house and when he was going to give me directions disappeared again. Another month goes by he finally talks to me again and by this time I’m just like gosh this guy is mental. I still liked him. This time he tells me that he has commitment issues but he’s working on it. I know I should probably just forget about him but I like him a lot plus I don’t like to give up people. What should I do? Should I just give up on him? Do you think he’s one of those guys that get a thrill out of hurting people? I also thought that made he had a Girlfriend. I don’t know I’m so confused, I just want him to be straight up with me. He doesn’t want to talk to me anymore fine, if he does fine. I want him to tell me because I don’t like to assume I like to know.
He's mental!?! With all due respect, I think you're as wacked as he is. What did you expect from an internet arrangement? I mean let's face it, internet dating might increase a person's options but really all it is, is a lazy, loser's way of 'not doing the real work of getting out there' (this applies equally to both the men and the women involved in this). Grow up, get the right stuff and get out there. No one ever said this was easy.

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Dear Guy, I met this wonderful country gentleman about a year ago at the restaurant where I hostess on the weekends. He came in to have dinner with his 12 year old son. When I first laid eyes on him I was already sizeing him up, but I thought he had to be married due to the kid by his side. Well, come to find out,Mr. cowboy liked me too,for he came back yet another day to further win me over with his witty charm. I told him from the get go that I was in the process of getting divorced and had been separated for three years and was not in the mood for careless affection. He seemed to take this in stride and offered me his phone number with the invitation of posible promise. I was so elated! when I got home that night, I downed 2 glasses of wine and called my blonde cuetie. Whew, to say the least we have been seeing each other for a year now but I still don't know where I stand.He's a very busy man. Runs his own business, is a divorced father who loves his son tremendously thus spending most of his free time with him, and I'm sad to say that I do believe he has a bit of a wandering eye. I have changed physically since we've met. I've cut my long waiving in the wind hair and have gotten a little larger in the booty department , not to mention the arms and middle region department. I KNOW, I KNOW! I wouldn't like it either if he gained weight,but could that really be the deciding factor to just throw me into the bin? I give him plenty of space and lots of honesty and lots of sex. How Do I know if he thinks it is good? I feel that it's really sweet and meaningful,not hard and dirty. Do men get off on sweet,soul surrending sex? I'm just kinda hanging in the balance and not sure of my next move. Emma
Hey Emma! -Doesn't sound to bad to me. We could all do with some more exercise, myself included. Go easy on the grits! I just did a TV spot in Connecticut and afterwards, I saw the tape and thought, "My God! I look like Shrek!" Anyway, while you're working on the bod and growing the hair back (get a cut that's more Cosmopolitan. It stands out better in a more rural or suburban area if you have the clothes to match); I would suggest for the bedroom that you mix it up a bit. Anything that gets too routine after a while, even if it's ever so sweet, becomes boring. Sometimes wild, sometimes sweet, sometimes scream worthy, sometimes spontaneous and always fun. It gives him something to think about at work. A bit of unpredictability without appearing psychotic goes a long way.

I have been dating this guy for about a year and to be perfectly honest with you, his sisters are apain inthe ass!!!!!!!!! He is 32 years old and they clean his house do most of his erands for him, stuff like grocery shopping, laundry etc. And he has started to ask me to do these things for him if it gets me mad that they do. Well I don't live with him and I don't think that I should have to do these things for him he is 32 years old. My question to you is this, how can I get him to pull away from his sisters without making him choose. I really love this guy but I am not going to deal with have to conpete with his family. Jolee
MAMA's BOY!!! Does he have a mother? Or is he from a cultural background where women serve? Perhaps you are appealing to him because you do NOT fall down for him which is the feeling I'm getting. The problem is that he's way too used to this kind of thing and really the only way to break this is for him to move far away from his family. Not across the country but far enough away that it would be extremely inconvenient for his sisters to diaper him. Eventually he'll want you to do the same thing. I suspect he has learned since birth how to appeal to a woman's materal instinct by feigning the helpless man thing. Unfortunately, if you give him an ultimatum, you'll lose. Family comes first. It sounds like you need a man, not a boy. Cut your losses and move on. -Sorry!

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